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		<title>By: Weekly Woof from the Web &#124; Pet Central&#039;s Pawsitive Dawgs Blog!</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-4891</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekly Woof from the Web &#124; Pet Central&#039;s Pawsitive Dawgs Blog!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 20:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This excellent excellent post from the Boulder Dog blog looks at the world from a fearful dogs point of view.  The info in here is important for ALL dog owners, not just those of us who own fearful, shy or spooky pets: Thank You For Ignoring my Dog [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This excellent excellent post from the Boulder Dog blog looks at the world from a fearful dogs point of view.  The info in here is important for ALL dog owners, not just those of us who own fearful, shy or spooky pets: Thank You For Ignoring my Dog [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Yorkshire Terrier</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1455</link>
		<dc:creator>Yorkshire Terrier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 22:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I  enjoy  your post  - great work!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I  enjoy  your post  &#8211; great work!</p>
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		<title>By: terry pride</title>
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		<dc:creator>terry pride</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 14:37:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>heres a link for further reading - 
Drive Reduction Theory 
http://tinyurl.com/36g9lrg OR 
http://psychology.jrank.org/pages/195/Drive-Reduction-Theory.html 

Drive Theory was originally *drive reduction* theory, abbreviated for convenience; it was QUOTE: 
&quot;A popular theory of the 1940s and 1950s that attributed behavior to the desire to reduce tension produced by primary (biological) or secondary (acquired) drives.&quot;

a primary &#039;drive&#039; would include hunger, breeding, etc; secondary &#039;drives&#039; would be learnt over time, by association or conditioning. 

thru the 40s and 50s, the number of &#039;drives&#039; proliferated madly, and the theory required constant addendums and exceptions, so it was not parsimonious. it became ridiculously unwieldy and was discarded. 

cheers, 
  ---  terry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>heres a link for further reading &#8211;<br />
Drive Reduction Theory<br />
<a href="http://tinyurl.com/36g9lrg" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/36g9lrg</a> OR<br />
<a href="http://psychology.jrank.org/pages/195/Drive-Reduction-Theory.html" rel="nofollow">http://psychology.jrank.org/pages/195/Drive-Reduction-Theory.html</a> </p>
<p>Drive Theory was originally *drive reduction* theory, abbreviated for convenience; it was QUOTE:<br />
&#8220;A popular theory of the 1940s and 1950s that attributed behavior to the desire to reduce tension produced by primary (biological) or secondary (acquired) drives.&#8221;</p>
<p>a primary &#8216;drive&#8217; would include hunger, breeding, etc; secondary &#8216;drives&#8217; would be learnt over time, by association or conditioning. </p>
<p>thru the 40s and 50s, the number of &#8216;drives&#8217; proliferated madly, and the theory required constant addendums and exceptions, so it was not parsimonious. it became ridiculously unwieldy and was discarded. </p>
<p>cheers,<br />
  &#8212;  terry</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1400</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 01:17:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Terry--thank you for commenting! Very interesting about the &quot;drive drivel.&quot; I appreciate your clarifying remarks. There is so much misinformation about dogs that has penetrated deep into the collective mind. it&#039;s hard to weed it out. So, thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Terry&#8211;thank you for commenting! Very interesting about the &#8220;drive drivel.&#8221; I appreciate your clarifying remarks. There is so much misinformation about dogs that has penetrated deep into the collective mind. it&#8217;s hard to weed it out. So, thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: terry pride</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1397</link>
		<dc:creator>terry pride</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i really enjoyed this post, and was reading the comments with interest when i came across *natural dog training* AKA *kevin behan*, LOL. 

bummer... it was such a nice change to be away from the usual drivel of CM/DW, Alpha-rolls, wolf-pack theory and dumbinance, i was caught off-balance by the sudden change - 

like walking down a staircase in the dark, and stepping onto a step that isn&#039;t there, THUMP - a disconcerting shock. 
simply targeting and shaping for pressure accomplishes precisely the same object, sans the Be-The-Moose or prey-&quot;drive&quot; pom-poms. 
[the concept of *drives* originated in human-psych and was trashed in the 1960s; it only persists as sloppy terminology in dog-training + behavior, but it is imprecise + misleading, altho convenient as shorthand.] 

the original post is TERRIFIC - thanks so much, deborah! 
 - terry pride, APDT-Aus, apdt#1827, CVA, TDF 
*wolves R wolves, dogs R dogs, and primates R us.* 
 - sept 2007</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i really enjoyed this post, and was reading the comments with interest when i came across *natural dog training* AKA *kevin behan*, LOL. </p>
<p>bummer&#8230; it was such a nice change to be away from the usual drivel of CM/DW, Alpha-rolls, wolf-pack theory and dumbinance, i was caught off-balance by the sudden change &#8211; </p>
<p>like walking down a staircase in the dark, and stepping onto a step that isn&#8217;t there, THUMP &#8211; a disconcerting shock.<br />
simply targeting and shaping for pressure accomplishes precisely the same object, sans the Be-The-Moose or prey-&#8221;drive&#8221; pom-poms.<br />
[the concept of *drives* originated in human-psych and was trashed in the 1960s; it only persists as sloppy terminology in dog-training + behavior, but it is imprecise + misleading, altho convenient as shorthand.] </p>
<p>the original post is TERRIFIC &#8211; thanks so much, deborah!<br />
 &#8211; terry pride, APDT-Aus, apdt#1827, CVA, TDF<br />
*wolves R wolves, dogs R dogs, and primates R us.*<br />
 &#8211; sept 2007</p>
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		<title>By: Art: Common-language is key to dog-bite prevention - Pet Forums Community</title>
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		<dc:creator>Art: Common-language is key to dog-bite prevention - Pet Forums Community</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 20:53:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Weekly Woof from the Web &#171; pawsitive dogs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Weekly Woof from the Web &#171; pawsitive dogs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 15:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This excellent excellent post from the Boulder Dog blog looks at the world from a fearful dogs point of view.  The info in here is important for ALL dog owners, not just those of us who own fearful, shy or spooky pets: Thank You For Ignoring my Dog [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mary

Thanks for welcome back :-)</description>
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<p>Thanks for welcome back <img src='http://www.boulderdog.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks! I&#039;ll try this.</description>
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		<title>By: Mary Haight</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Haight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 19:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laughed aloud re crotch sniffing and not reacting lesson - that&#039;s a real trick with some dogs! Great post! And Debbie Jacobs comment about the &quot;pressure on, pressure off&quot; concept put me in mind of the Behavioral Adjustment Training.  Glad you&#039;re back!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laughed aloud re crotch sniffing and not reacting lesson &#8211; that&#8217;s a real trick with some dogs! Great post! And Debbie Jacobs comment about the &#8220;pressure on, pressure off&#8221; concept put me in mind of the Behavioral Adjustment Training.  Glad you&#8217;re back!</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooh - that&#039;s great!  

If Sadie&#039;s into &quot;touch&quot;, then you might not have any trouble at all getting her into &quot;pushing&quot; (with you).  This is a technique that I&#039;ve used to help many fearful dogs not only deal with their situational stress, but also vent stored stress.  It&#039;s even better than tug.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.naturaldogblog.com/pushing&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Here&#039;s an article on how to push.&lt;/a&gt;

And here&#039;s an example of how you would use it when you&#039;re on a walk like the one that you described in your &quot;magic touch&quot; article - where your dog is obviously stressed, or even already flipping out:  
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.naturaldogblog.com/rechanneling&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Helping Your Dog Overcome Stress on a Walk with Pushing&lt;/a&gt;

I&#039;ll be curious to hear your thoughts!

Side note - I often tell people to &quot;talk&quot; to their dogs with touch, since physical contact (and body language) is a form of communication that dogs understand much more easily than English or *insert language here*.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooh &#8211; that&#8217;s great!  </p>
<p>If Sadie&#8217;s into &#8220;touch&#8221;, then you might not have any trouble at all getting her into &#8220;pushing&#8221; (with you).  This is a technique that I&#8217;ve used to help many fearful dogs not only deal with their situational stress, but also vent stored stress.  It&#8217;s even better than tug.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.naturaldogblog.com/pushing" rel="nofollow">Here&#8217;s an article on how to push.</a></p>
<p>And here&#8217;s an example of how you would use it when you&#8217;re on a walk like the one that you described in your &#8220;magic touch&#8221; article &#8211; where your dog is obviously stressed, or even already flipping out:<br />
<a href="http://www.naturaldogblog.com/rechanneling" rel="nofollow">Helping Your Dog Overcome Stress on a Walk with Pushing</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be curious to hear your thoughts!</p>
<p>Side note &#8211; I often tell people to &#8220;talk&#8221; to their dogs with touch, since physical contact (and body language) is a form of communication that dogs understand much more easily than English or *insert language here*.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Neil

I like your suggestions. And although Sadie&#039;s not a great tug player we have learned to play &quot;touch.&quot; I wrote about it in &quot;Magic Touch for Fearful Dogs.&quot; You can read it here http://bit.ly/awHY39

Thanks again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Neil</p>
<p>I like your suggestions. And although Sadie&#8217;s not a great tug player we have learned to play &#8220;touch.&#8221; I wrote about it in &#8220;Magic Touch for Fearful Dogs.&#8221; You can read it here <a href="http://bit.ly/awHY39" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/awHY39</a></p>
<p>Thanks again!</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post (and comments).  I often find that encouraging a dog&#039;s human companion to be more assertive in defining the boundaries of interaction (e.g. &quot;Please ignore my dog.&quot; or &quot;My dog isn&#039;t friendly&quot; - even if that&#039;s not necessarily true) is a great way for the person to overcome social anxiety.  It helps you be stronger in your presence if you 1. See yourself as your dogs protector/counselor whose mission it is to help your dog have good experiences and 2. Learn that it essentially doesn&#039;t matter what someone else thinks about your recommendation - as long as they follow it!

A quick tip/addition (if you don&#039;t mind) - it can be helpful to give a dog something to DO with the energy that they&#039;re experiencing when they encounter someone new.  A quick game of tug (where your dog wins), or guiding your dog, with treats, into a down/stay on their bed on the other side of the room.  Not only are you helping your dog navigate the situation, but you&#039;re also building the trust that they experience with you.  In other words - that YOU are a reliable resource for helping them deal with the emotions that the world stirs up.  

If you&#039;re going to do this (like play tug - where you let your dog win - for example) then it helps to practice this outside when there aren&#039;t any stressors around, so it doesn&#039;t catch your dog totally by surprise if you pull out the tug toy when guests arrive.  After all, your dog needs to build that muscle - especially if they&#039;re used to having to fend for themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post (and comments).  I often find that encouraging a dog&#8217;s human companion to be more assertive in defining the boundaries of interaction (e.g. &#8220;Please ignore my dog.&#8221; or &#8220;My dog isn&#8217;t friendly&#8221; &#8211; even if that&#8217;s not necessarily true) is a great way for the person to overcome social anxiety.  It helps you be stronger in your presence if you 1. See yourself as your dogs protector/counselor whose mission it is to help your dog have good experiences and 2. Learn that it essentially doesn&#8217;t matter what someone else thinks about your recommendation &#8211; as long as they follow it!</p>
<p>A quick tip/addition (if you don&#8217;t mind) &#8211; it can be helpful to give a dog something to DO with the energy that they&#8217;re experiencing when they encounter someone new.  A quick game of tug (where your dog wins), or guiding your dog, with treats, into a down/stay on their bed on the other side of the room.  Not only are you helping your dog navigate the situation, but you&#8217;re also building the trust that they experience with you.  In other words &#8211; that YOU are a reliable resource for helping them deal with the emotions that the world stirs up.  </p>
<p>If you&#8217;re going to do this (like play tug &#8211; where you let your dog win &#8211; for example) then it helps to practice this outside when there aren&#8217;t any stressors around, so it doesn&#8217;t catch your dog totally by surprise if you pull out the tug toy when guests arrive.  After all, your dog needs to build that muscle &#8211; especially if they&#8217;re used to having to fend for themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 04:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m laughing out loud! You bet. Crotch sniffing without the &#039;sniffee&#039; reacting has been duly added to the list.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m laughing out loud! You bet. Crotch sniffing without the &#8216;sniffee&#8217; reacting has been duly added to the list.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 04:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I like that--pressure on, pressure off. It&#039;s so hard for people not to look and touch. It was for me too until Sadie taught me otherwise. So I&#039;m much better meeting &#039;new&#039; dogs that I used to be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I like that&#8211;pressure on, pressure off. It&#8217;s so hard for people not to look and touch. It was for me too until Sadie taught me otherwise. So I&#8217;m much better meeting &#8216;new&#8217; dogs that I used to be.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 00:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a timid dog of my own and have enjoyed reading Sadie&#039;s adventures.  Misha is still somewhat timid but is also coming out of her shell a bit and sometimes gets a little too forward as she gains a bit of confidence.   She would like to addend the rules to add that while she is getting to know you it is perfectly okay for her to stick her big square nose in your crotch but you are NOT to act startled or jump because that would scare her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a timid dog of my own and have enjoyed reading Sadie&#8217;s adventures.  Misha is still somewhat timid but is also coming out of her shell a bit and sometimes gets a little too forward as she gains a bit of confidence.   She would like to addend the rules to add that while she is getting to know you it is perfectly okay for her to stick her big square nose in your crotch but you are NOT to act startled or jump because that would scare her.</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie Jacobs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie Jacobs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 22:57:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the photo! I often tell people that I know how handsome Sunny is and if they do find themselves going eye ball to eye ball with him to blink, glance away or turn their heads. It&#039;s practically impossible for people &#039;not&#039; to look at him so I try to give them the &#039;what to do next&#039; move. Pressure on, pressure off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the photo! I often tell people that I know how handsome Sunny is and if they do find themselves going eye ball to eye ball with him to blink, glance away or turn their heads. It&#8217;s practically impossible for people &#8216;not&#8217; to look at him so I try to give them the &#8216;what to do next&#8217; move. Pressure on, pressure off.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 19:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Zarda

As I replied to Ashley, I find it helps to say something like, &quot;Please help Sadie build her confidence by ignoring her. I know that sounds strange, but, really, it will help her immensely.&quot; Most people want to help even if it means not petting your sweet dog. 

I find it hard to resist dogs and until I got Sadie I was terrible at reaching out and petting dogs, not all of whom wanted anything to do with me! So in her own way, Sadie has helped to make the world a little kinder for the dogs that I meet. I let them come to me and check me out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Zarda</p>
<p>As I replied to Ashley, I find it helps to say something like, &#8220;Please help Sadie build her confidence by ignoring her. I know that sounds strange, but, really, it will help her immensely.&#8221; Most people want to help even if it means not petting your sweet dog. </p>
<p>I find it hard to resist dogs and until I got Sadie I was terrible at reaching out and petting dogs, not all of whom wanted anything to do with me! So in her own way, Sadie has helped to make the world a little kinder for the dogs that I meet. I let them come to me and check me out.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1345</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 19:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw...thanks for the welcome back.

I know what you mean about people reacting badly. I&#039;ve had similar experiences. I&#039;ve found that if I ask people to help Sadie build her confidence by ignoring her then it&#039;s a little easier for them to understand.

Good luck with Pru.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw&#8230;thanks for the welcome back.</p>
<p>I know what you mean about people reacting badly. I&#8217;ve had similar experiences. I&#8217;ve found that if I ask people to help Sadie build her confidence by ignoring her then it&#8217;s a little easier for them to understand.</p>
<p>Good luck with Pru.</p>
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		<title>By: Zardra</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1344</link>
		<dc:creator>Zardra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 18:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had my dog Lily since October.  As she&#039;s grown older, we&#039;ve discovered that she&#039;s pretty much just like Sadie.  Thankfully, I know someone else with a reactive dog, so I was familiar with the type of situation and was able to recognize the signs.  
I just wish there was an easier way to inform people that while, yes, my dog is adorable and you would like to pet her, that is the absolute last thing she wants.  Some people just don&#039;t seem to believe me when I attempt to warn them that she does like them staring at her and she won&#039;t like it if they try to pet her, especially on the head.  They seem to think that a cute, fuzzy dog is begging for attention just by being cute and fuzzy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had my dog Lily since October.  As she&#8217;s grown older, we&#8217;ve discovered that she&#8217;s pretty much just like Sadie.  Thankfully, I know someone else with a reactive dog, so I was familiar with the type of situation and was able to recognize the signs.<br />
I just wish there was an easier way to inform people that while, yes, my dog is adorable and you would like to pet her, that is the absolute last thing she wants.  Some people just don&#8217;t seem to believe me when I attempt to warn them that she does like them staring at her and she won&#8217;t like it if they try to pet her, especially on the head.  They seem to think that a cute, fuzzy dog is begging for attention just by being cute and fuzzy.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1343</link>
		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:20:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post was a great reminder for me that I am Pru&#039;s rule advocate. Summer usually means an abundance of guests and I sometimes lack the courage to tell people &quot;please ignore my dog.&quot; Maybe it&#039;s because I&#039;ve had people react badly to me saying this (&quot;ignore your dog?! What do you mean?! You are a horrible dog parent!&quot; etc) but your post reminded me that I AM taking care of Pru by telling guests to just pretend she&#039;s not there until she acknowledges them.

Oh and welcome back! You have been missed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post was a great reminder for me that I am Pru&#8217;s rule advocate. Summer usually means an abundance of guests and I sometimes lack the courage to tell people &#8220;please ignore my dog.&#8221; Maybe it&#8217;s because I&#8217;ve had people react badly to me saying this (&#8220;ignore your dog?! What do you mean?! You are a horrible dog parent!&#8221; etc) but your post reminded me that I AM taking care of Pru by telling guests to just pretend she&#8217;s not there until she acknowledges them.</p>
<p>Oh and welcome back! You have been missed.</p>
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		<title>By: Melf</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1340</link>
		<dc:creator>Melf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 00:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! I too can completely relate. While Jasper (my Sheltie) soaks up the attention, Daisy (my Lab) needs time and space to better assess you before you start petting her. Some people she warms up to right away and will sit next to them begging for a pet. Others she just skitters away from and watches from a distance.

And Rod, completely agree with the &quot;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&quot; rule. I use the same approach when working with new clients who are fearful dogs. It has always served me well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! I too can completely relate. While Jasper (my Sheltie) soaks up the attention, Daisy (my Lab) needs time and space to better assess you before you start petting her. Some people she warms up to right away and will sit next to them begging for a pet. Others she just skitters away from and watches from a distance.</p>
<p>And Rod, completely agree with the &#8220;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&#8221; rule. I use the same approach when working with new clients who are fearful dogs. It has always served me well.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah Flick</title>
		<link>http://www.boulderdog.net/2010/07/12/thank-you-for-ignoring-my-dog/#comment-1338</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Flick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 22:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Rod

Great post - &quot;Please Don&#039;t Pet Me - I&#039;m Working.&quot; And, I have to agree with you that &quot;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&quot; is right on, until, that is, the dog, makes it apparent that those rules can be relaxed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rod</p>
<p>Great post &#8211; &#8220;Please Don&#8217;t Pet Me &#8211; I&#8217;m Working.&#8221; And, I have to agree with you that &#8220;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&#8221; is right on, until, that is, the dog, makes it apparent that those rules can be relaxed.</p>
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		<title>By: Rod@GoPetFriendly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rod@GoPetFriendly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 21:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My comment below relates to Ty, who is our fearful dog - so I can identify. Buster, on the other hand, is a sponge and can&#039;t get enough affection or attention.

For Inside the House: I know you&#039;re not a big fan of Cesar Millan, but the one tip we took away from his show was the &quot;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&quot; rule. That&#039;s what we tell people when they are meeting Ty.

For Outside the House: We got Ty a little doggie vest and patches that say &quot;Please Don&#039;t Pet Me - I&#039;m Working&quot; from SitSay.com. It has saved us a lot of aggravation from people who just feel they have to pet Ty. Here is the blog post I wrote about it - http://www.gopetfriendlyblog.com/2010/05/tys-too-sexy/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My comment below relates to Ty, who is our fearful dog &#8211; so I can identify. Buster, on the other hand, is a sponge and can&#8217;t get enough affection or attention.</p>
<p>For Inside the House: I know you&#8217;re not a big fan of Cesar Millan, but the one tip we took away from his show was the &#8220;No talk, no touch, no eye contact&#8221; rule. That&#8217;s what we tell people when they are meeting Ty.</p>
<p>For Outside the House: We got Ty a little doggie vest and patches that say &#8220;Please Don&#8217;t Pet Me &#8211; I&#8217;m Working&#8221; from SitSay.com. It has saved us a lot of aggravation from people who just feel they have to pet Ty. Here is the blog post I wrote about it &#8211; <a href="http://www.gopetfriendlyblog.com/2010/05/tys-too-sexy/" rel="nofollow">http://www.gopetfriendlyblog.com/2010/05/tys-too-sexy/</a></p>
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